Monday, April 30, 2012

Psalm 16:5-6—On My Mind

“LORD, you alone are my portion and my cup; you make my lot secure. The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance.” –Psalm 16:5-6

This week, as I said I would, I’m continuing to reflect on Psalm 16. There is so much good news in this one, little Psalm!

Verses 5 and 6 are familiar to me. As a military spouse, I actually live the analogy! In the ever-changing scenery of my life, God alone gives me security. Therefore, I’m thankful that He alone is my portion and my cup. I can cling to Him in any circumstance. He won’t move away or deploy for a time or have to be left behind when I move. He is with me wherever I go, and He always will be.

What’s more, the boundary lines, as I move from place to place and enjoy new experiences and meet new people, have indeed fallen in pleasant places for me. My life isn’t perfect, but it’s directed by God. I trust Him to lead me where I need to be. All is a gift. All will work out for good. All draws me closer to Him. Because of that, I can know that whatever comes next will be a delightful inheritance—a step closer to Jesus, eternity with Him.

Wherever I go, whatever I do, whatever I experience—it’s all about Jesus drawing me into a deeper relationship with Him. My boundary lines are pleasant; I have everything I need. And the inheritance I’m looking forward to will be the best—indeed!

Thank You, Lord! Amen.
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Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Book Review: Covenant Child

Covenant Child is an amazing story. It’s sad—heartbreaking, actually— and full of unimaginable pain, but it points readers to the truth of God’s incredible love, mercy, patience, and grace. The story is an allegory of each person’s journey toward faith and the decision to accept or reject God’s Truth, to believe what He says or be misled by Satan’s selfish and hurtful lies.

I loved the way author Terri Blackstock told the story with twins in order to make the truth about choices more clear. When their father dies in a plane crash, three-year-old Kara and Lizzie are taken from the only home they’ve ever known, from their stepmother, Amanda, who loves them and who intended to raise them faithfully as her own. Though legal technicalities continue to keep Amanda, the stepmother, from the girls, she determines to carefully preserve their inheritance for when they come of age. But this truth is kept from Kara and Lizzie, and their heads are filled with lies. Finding their way to the life they were meant to lead is the challenge they both face.

Following the story itself is an insightful author interview and a reader’s discussion guide. Thomas Nelson Publishers sent a complimentary eCopy of this book for my honest review. I’m recommending it to everyone!
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Monday, April 23, 2012

Psalm 16:3--On My Mind


"I say of the holy people who are in the land, 'They are the noble ones in whom is all my delight.'" --Psalm 16:3

Recently, my studies have drawn me to Psalm 16. I may have to memorize the whole thing--all eleven verses. At the very least, I'm going to focus on several verses over the next few weeks while meditating on the rest. I invite you to join me as always. This week, let's focus on verse 3!

Throughout this Psalm, David is expressing gratitude for God's guidance, resulting from David's firm commitment to Him. David stays away from idols and those who worship them; God directs his life along the best paths.

But what's this have to do with "the holy people of the land?" The only people who are holy are those whom God has made holy. We know God does this through Christ when we receive Him. David might have seen it differently. He might have been thinking of priests who were made symbolically holy. The verses around this one, though, lead me to believe he was thinking of people who chose to follow God wholeheartedly, people he admired and found to be holy. The people like this in our lives are our fellow Christians--especially the ones in whom we, personally, see Christ. They're the people we long to be like because we know this would help us to be Christ-like.

Since Psalm 16 expresses gratitude for God's guidance, David was probably finding delight in those who encouraged him along the way--those noble people he looked up to whenever he needed an example to follow or a bit of helpful advice.

Personally, I just love the reminder that we Christians are to delight in one another. We are serving God together. We are finding our way through life together. We are focused on God together. We are brothers and sisters in Christ!

Father, thank You for this reminder that we should not take each other for granted. We all love You, and You love all of us. Help us to greet one another with genuine joy and encourage one another in positive ways. Help us not only to get along, but to delight in one another as You've taught us to. We're noble now because of You. Help us to treat each other in kind. In Jesus' name, amen.
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Sunday, April 22, 2012

Giving Our Petitions to God

Then Hannah prayed and said: ‘My heart rejoices in the LORD; in the LORD my horn is lifted high. My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance.’”
--1 Samuel 2:1, emphasis mine

Hannah’s story is one of my all-time favorites. The Bible only gives her two chapters, but there is much we can learn from this devoted woman of God.

When I read of her misery at not having a desperately longed-for child, compounded by taunts from her husband’s other wife, my heart always breaks for her. When Eli confronts her during a time of intense prayer, accusing her of being drunk, I want to scold him for being so dense: “Hasn’t the poor woman suffered enough?” And then, when she finally bears this child and turns him over to the Lord, I admire her courage at following through on her promise. (If you are unfamiliar with this priceless story, you’ll find it in 1 Samuel 1.)

But today, I’m drawn to something about the story that I usually miss, and I think, perhaps, it may be the whole point. Remember, I just told you, Hannah’s story is found in 1 Samuel 1. The chapter ends with Hannah putting Samuel into Eli’s care for a lifetime of service in the house of the Lord. Chapter 2, however, begins with Hannah’s prayer of joy and praise. Hannah gave up her son, then Hannah praised the Lord.

You would think the prayer of joy and praise would have come when Hannah learned she was expecting Samuel, or maybe a little later, when he was born. Then, you would think putting Samuel into Eli’s care would result in a time of mourning, or maybe another time of petition, asking for more children to replace the one she’s given up. Wouldn’t you think this? I think I would.

But I’m thankful for Hannah’s example here. We often view her as a symbol of hope for childless women—and that she is for sure! She’s also a mentor, though, for all women who’ve ever had the privilege of raising a child or two or more.

You see, we don’t bear children in order to have them—to possess them, to keep them forever in our care. We bear children in order to send them off in faithful service to God through whatever occupation He leads them into! This does not mean we drop them off at our local church for the pastor to raise from the day they’re weaned—like Hannah did. We are blessed to be able to keep our children a little bit longer than that. But, like Hannah, our goal from the day they are born is to raise them to know, love, and serve God as He directs them to throughout their lives. He gives them to us, so we can give them back to Him.

That’s why the day we successfully launch them is a day to sincerely rejoice! (even if it's through a few tears.)

And, when this day comes, though we'll miss our children, we can trust that, just as God blessed Hannah with more children, He will bless us with more children, too—people to love and nurture, projects to complete in His name.

As I ponder all this, I have one more thought to add to this thought. And, as I mentioned earlier, it may be the thought, so I hope you’ll bear with me for just a few paragraphs more.

Hannah’s petition for a child, the way she handled it, can apply to all petitions we may bring before God. When considering what we want or need, rather than considering what these will mean to us personally, like Hannah we can consider what they’ll mean to God’s Kingdom and to our work within it. We pray for things we can develop for the honor and glory of God. We pray for things that will build His Kingdom, drawing more people to Him. Then we care for these things as God provides, releasing them willingly and with praise when it comes time for that. Perhaps this is what it means to give our petitions to God. We ask for what we want or need, releasing the answer to Him even before we receive it, with faithful intentions to use all God provides for His Kingdom’s good.

That is what Hannah did. Let’s learn from her and do the same.

Father, thank You for Hannah's example. Teach us to consider Your Kingdom and our role in it whenever we present our requests to You. Thank You for the gifts You bring into our lives for a time. Help us to nurture them as You intend, and then release them back to You with joy. Let all we do be for the honor of Your name. We love You, Lord! Amen.
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Friday, April 20, 2012

The Best News Ever!

Hear me! Oh, please, hear me—whoever you are. If you’ve stopped by today, I have some good news for you.

God created you, and He loves you.

Now some of you may think this is obvious, old news, but I know for a fact that there are many people out there who really struggle with this. I’m here to proclaim it’s the truth!

No matter the circumstances of the beginning of your existence, whether your parents were married and planned for you or called you an “oops” or got carried away on a date or, well, however you came to be, God Himself seized the opportunity and chose to create YOU. Your parents may or may not have made a “mistake” or worse, but you yourself are God’s own creation by choice—and He adores you.

This is the truth.

And, no matter how you’ve been treated by others or what you’ve done with your life since that point, this truth still remains. God created you, and He loves you, and, best of all, He wants a permanent, personal relationship with you.

This is good news! Amazing, in fact, when you think of it. The Almighty Creator of the Universe wants to be known and loved by you. God loves you.

But, there is some bad news, too. Though God Himself created you, your life has been infected by sin.

Some people don’t understand this. They think God should have prevented it.

He could have. I have no doubt.

But He’s kind of committed to this thing called free will.

Sometimes I really hate free will—like, when people misuse it and freely choose wrong things and freely reject the God Who loves them so much.

Free will means we are free to make our own choices. We can choose to do right things. We can choose to do wrong things. We can choose to follow God—or not. We are free to choose.

Now why would a good and loving God allow the people He adores to choose to do things that might hurt themselves or others? Oversimplified—it’s because He loves us and wants us to love Him, too—by choice. Without free will, we are puppets who do what we are made to do, slaves compelled to obey. God doesn’t want puppets or slaves. He wants children who love Him because He first loved them.

Which brings me back to that bad news: God gave His children free will and they exercised it by breaking the one rule he gave them, and every created human being since has been infected with sin, and sin separates us from God because God is holy—absolutely perfect. Sin cannot exist in His Presence. Sin in our lives keep us from Him.

But this is not God's fault. We brought it on ourselves—by choice. Yes. God gave humanity the choice to freely choose, but humanity made the choice. Humanity made the wrong choice. God created us. He loves us. He gave us this amazing gift called free will, so that we could love Him by choice and enjoy His Presence forever—and we chose something else. We have no one to blame, but ourselves.

Thankfully, this is not the end of the story.

God still loves us—sin infected or not. He loves us so much that He sent Jesus to die on the cross to pay the price for our sin. Then He raised Jesus from the dead in a most glorious triumph over death—sin’s consequence. If we admit there is sin in our life, tell God we are sorry for it, and ask for His forgiveness, He gives it, because of Jesus. Then Jesus clothes us in His very own righteousness. That’s right! He takes our ugly sin away and covers us in His perfect righteousness, and then we can enjoy that beautiful relationship that God originally intended when He first created us.

It’s just that simple! Believe this! Hear me, please.

Once we accept Jesus as Lord of our lives—by choice—by exercising our God-given free will, we’ll still struggle through this life. We’ll make wrong choices. We may occasionally yield to sin. We’ll have problems to solve and challenges to overcome. But God will be with us. We can talk to Him about these things, and He will help us. He’ll guide us back to right paths. He’ll tell us when we’ve sinned and forgive us when we admit it and vow to try again. He’ll comfort and encourage and strengthen and lead and bless—for the rest of our lives!

And then He’ll take us to Heaven where we’ll be perfected at last, free from temptation, free from tears, free of pain—and able to see our Maker clearly—forever! We’ll enjoy life with Him for all eternity.
  • God created you—intentionally. You are not a mistake.
  • He loves you dearly—more than any human being ever has or possibly can.
  • He wants a permanent, personal relationship with you.
  • He gives you the freedom to choose.
  • He sent His one and only Son to die for you in order to give you this choice.
  • He rose this Son from the dead to conquer death for all time, so you don’t have to die when you die.
  • If you haven’t already received Jesus as your Savior, He’s waiting for you to do so now.
  • He is very patient because He loves you.
  • When you welcome Him into your life, all Heaven will rejoice and your eternal life with Jesus will begin.
  • He will never leave you or forsake you.
  • He will walk beside you all through this life until He’s ready to take you home.
Listen. Please hear me. If you haven’t already, please talk with Jesus today.
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Talking with Jesus is as simple as talking to a friend. Simply tell Him what’s on your mind and in your heart. He already knows these things—better, even, than you do. But it helps you to vocalize them—and He loves to hear your voice. If you’re not sure how to start, try this: Lord Jesus, thank You for creating me. Thank You for giving me life. I’m sorry I haven’t always lived the way You intended. Please forgive my sin. Thank You for dying on the cross for me that I can enjoy a forever life with You! I invite You to be Lord of my life. Please help me to know You better every day of my life from now on, so that I can faithfully live for You. Thank You for Your Presence now—and for all eternity. I love You, Lord Jesus. Amen.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Book Review: Trauma Plan

Trauma Plan is the story of victims striving to regain control over their lives—or, really, to turn their lives back over to the One Who never lost control. Riley Hale is an ER trauma chaplain, counseling those who suffer while recovering from a vicious assault that caused what may be permanent nerve damage. She is determined to overcome her disability and get her life back on track—to return to her former job as an ER nurse.

Dr. Jack Travis works part-time at the same hospital as Riley, but devotes most of his time to the free clinic he runs. Unfortunately, from his point of view, suburbia has encroached on his clinic. Wealthy neighbors fear those who use the clinic and are determined to shut it down.

When Riley and Jack meet, he invites her to volunteer at the clinic, hoping her influential last name will give the clinic some neighborhood clout. Riley accepts, hoping to prove through her work there that she is fit once again to be an ER nurse.

Author Candace Calvert has used her own experiences as an ER nurse to write a beautiful story of empathy and compassion, trust, and God’s sovereignty and grace. Subtle truths are woven throughout. As readers get to know each amazing character, they can’t help but cheer them on as the intensity builds right to the perfect conclusion. Tyndale House Publishers sent this book for my honest review. I’m happy to recommend it to fans of contemporary Christian fiction.
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Monday, April 16, 2012

2 Samuel 22:29-30—On My Mind

“You are my lamp, O Lord; the Lord turns my darkness into light. With your help I can advance against a troop; with my God I can scale a wall.” –2 Samuel 22:29-30

I know its been a while, but I’m thinking it’s time to exercise some mental muscle again and further build my spiritual arsenal. I’m getting ready to face some mildly daunting challenges in my life, and, though the spirit is willing, the flesh is complaining that it’s weak. I was very excited when I came across these verses from 2 Samuel this morning. They’re from one of David’s psalms. Did you know they put some of his psalms in other books? I’m pretty happy about that. As far as I’m concerned, the more of David’s psalms we can find, the better. I’m pretty sure he’s still writing them for Jesus even now. That’s something else we can look forward to when we think of entering Heaven someday!

The first part of this verse reminds me that if ever I feel confused about which direction to go or what to do, I can trust the Lord to guide me. He’ll turn my darkness into light.

Oh, thank You, Lord!

The second part assures me that when I have a great challenge to face and feel a bit weak in the knees, God is my strength. When it must be done and I must do it, he will help me advance against whatever and scale the highest walls. In fact, according to Bible Gateway, advance against a troop can also be translated run through a barricade! Ooh! Fun! Let’s go!

So welcome back to On My Mind Mondays. As before, I invite you to memorize or meditate on these verses this week with me. God’s Spirit will use them to encourage us whenever we need this message from God’s Word.

Lord, thank You for this encouragement today. When I feel week or challenged, help me to remember that You are my strength. I can do all things with Your help. I’ll move forward eagerly for the glory of Your name. In that precious name I pray. Amen.
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Monday, April 9, 2012

Book Review: Stand by Me

Stand by Me by Neta Jackson is the story of the idealism of youth meeting the experience of, ahem, maturity. It’s “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young” meeting “These older women must train the younger women.” The slow-growing relationship between Kat and Avis is beautiful, brilliant, and unique. I just loved doing my best to absorb all the wisdom contained in this story.

Fans of Neta Jackson’s Yada Yada Prayer Group series, which I have not yet read, will find that group in this story and, as I understand from the Reading Group Guide in Stand by Me, a deeper look at Avis’s character. Though this is a new series, SouledOut Sisters, Yada Yada fans will want to continue what they started here. On the other hand, Jackson gives more than enough information to keep readers who are meeting these characters for the first time, like me, totally in the loop. I never felt lost, enjoyed the current story and characters, and look forward to someday reading the Yada Yada books.

Themes touched on in this story include: homelessness, domestic violence, church politics, racism, inner city ministries/social services, salvation, Christian growth, mentorship, economic issues, and more. The series is set in Chicago and revolves around members of the SouledOut Community Church.

I’m happy to recommend this book and thank Thomas Nelson Publishers for providing me with a complimentary eCopy for my honest review.
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Sunday, April 8, 2012

He Is Risen! He's Risen, Indeed!

“My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” –Galatians 2:20NLT

Jesus died to save us from our sins. But He rose to give us life—His life. Jesus died, so He could rise to live through you and me.

True. Jesus died for our sins and rose again that those who believe can live forever with him in Paradise. We will experience eternal peace and happiness there.

But if that was His whole purpose, He’d take us to Heaven the moment we accepted Him. Mission accomplished. Another one saved. Take her to Heaven, so her happiness can begin.

It doesn’t work that way. We’re saved. We’re still here. And life is hard sometimes.

Jesus said it would be. “In this world, you will have trouble, but take heart I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).

Take heart! He has overcome the world! He lives. And He lives in you and me! That is the joy of salvation that we can experience immediately. But it gets better! We have a job to do! In fact, it’s the most ironic job ever! Our job is to willingly lay down our own lives that Christ can live His through ours, so others can see and be saved like you and me.

“To live is Christ and to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21), said Paul. We Christians are a strange breed of people who look forward to dying, knowing that on that day Jesus will take us to Heaven to happily live in His immediate Presence eternally. Until then, though, we have a mission: to surrender daily that His life can shine through us to the rest of the world. This quiet surrender is our life task. It’s also the best way to show our deep gratitude to Jesus, Who gave all He had for us.

On Easter, I celebrate Christ’s life. I celebrate His life in me. I vow once more to give ever more of myself to Him as the Spirit leads that others will see His life in me (in quiet, little me!)—and know that Jesus lives!

Hallelujah! He is risen. He’s risen indeed!
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 Other verses on this topic: Philippians 2:15, Romans 12:1, Luke 9:23

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Book Review--Quiet

You might not be able to tell from reading a blog post, but I’m a pretty quiet person. I like to read, learn, think, reflect, and absorb. I dearly love people, but I prefer them in ones or twos, so I can offer my full attention. This is a good thing!

Susan Cain will tell you why in her amazing book about the psychology, personality, and power of the introvert.

I loved this book! Cain is the first person I’ve ever come across who agrees with me that one can be quiet without being shy. There is a difference! I’ve always said so, but nobody listens to me.

And now I know why! Did I mention I love this book?

The book is divided into four sections. The first, The Extrovert Ideal, shows how our society has changed over the past 70 or so years, becoming obsessed with extroversion, and reveals some problems this has caused. Cain explains the strengths and weaknesses of both introverts and extroverts, that both have something valuable to offer, and why balance is necessary.

The second section explores the biology and psychology behind quiet tendencies, asking the question, “Can introverts become extroverts through training and determination, or are they what they are?” (This section gets pretty technical, but is fascinating if you'll choose to hang in there.)

The third section explores the Asian culture which tends to focus on the introvert. Cain focuses here on the experiences of Asian-American teenagers often caught between both cultures.

The final section is full of practical advice for both introverts and extroverts on how to get along with one another—particularly within a marriage and at work. Cain helps introverts determine when they need to stand their ground and when it helps to fake it, becoming a pseudo-extrovert. She also tells how to do this without over-stressing yourself or becoming insincere. She closes this section with a chapter for parents and teachers of introverts on helping them successfully transition into a world that often won’t accept them for who they are.

Throughout the book, Cain gives examples of well-known and respected introverts who used the strength of this bent in order to make great contributions to society.

I recommend this book to all introverts.

I also recommend this book to all spouses, parents, and teachers of introverts. (This book should be a college text for teachers in training!)

I especially recommend this book to every extrovert who has ever been tempted to ask an introvert why she is so quiet. (If you’ve yielded to that temptation, this book is required reading for you!)

Face it, I just recommend this book—and I thank Susan Cain for writing it.

Waterbrook Multnomah Publishing Group sent a complimentary copy of this book for my honest review. The book is actually published by Crown Publishing, though. It is a well-researched and carefully written, secular psychology book.
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To learn about other books available for introverts, click here for an interesting list.